This post is in
response to Emily
Burke's post "Women As Aesthetically pleasing objects." In her post she discussed our cultures
view of women and how we
desire them to look thin. She then asked the question of why we find thin women aesthetically pleasing?
Beauty and attraction has a lot to do with trends in our culture. Why something is attractive has to do with what specific body features symbolize to our society. These could be unconscious or subconscious symbols. Years ago, our society valued women who were bigger because it represented wealth (conscious). Yet, that died out possibly because those who are larger are unhealthy, have a lower life expectancy, and are less physically fit. Thin women may also be more attractive to men, because they are less potent and gender roles suggest that the man is the potent role. (This is a subconscious symbol.)
During slavery the more pale a women was, the more attractive. Paleness represented wealth, and not having to work in the fields (also conscious). Women would walk with parasols and apply chemicals to their faces to keep them pale. If I remember right, they applied led to their faces which caused some to die from led poisoning. Beauty at the price of death? Is it that important to our culture to be viewed as beautiful that we would risk our lives? Apparently. But why? Why is being beautiful so important? I have one theory.
We believe that those who are beautiful are: happier, more liked, more successful, richer, nicer, and more likely to have a loving relationship with the opposite sex. These thoughts, whether we want to admit it or not, are partly subconscious and partly conscious.
This
need to be beautiful and attractive
didn’t just drive our society to death during slavery, it still is today. Instead of putting deadly chemicals on our faces many people resort to purging and just not eating at all. Plastic surgery is also a thriving desire of society, changing our noses, fat content, and lips –and for what?! To be viewed as attractive! When we take it to the extreme it is called Body
Dysmorphic Disorder, a type of psychological anxiety disorder which involves obsessions and compulsions related to our looks. Obsessions are thoughts and compulsions are actions. These compulsions can involve numerous plastic surgeries, a heavy amount of applied makeup, and/ or eating disorders. Numerous plastic surgeries result in people look they are shiny plastic, and fake. Anorexia
nervosa and bulimia
nervosa, when taken to the extreme make those suffering look like they are literally just skin and bones. In these drastic cases the individuals are suffering from serious psychological disorders perceive the way the look different than they actually do and it is all that they can think about. It is thought to deal with the amount of serotonin in the brain.
But back to why we need to be viewed as attractive. Like I said above, we associate to all of these positive things to being beautiful. Yet, correlation does not equal causation. The truth is that being beautiful gives us confidence, and confidence makes us happier, more successful, nicer,
ect. Personally, I put on make-up not to be more attractive, but to have more confidence. But can we have confidence in ourselves without being beautiful or attractive? Does being thin have anything to do with confidence?